With so much technology and information around us, there is one thing we must keep in check, that in all this noise we don’t lose our peace and happiness.
We all have a different definition of success, career and personal goals, relationship goals, the meaning of family, and basically we all want different things from life and everyone’s ideal picture of what their life should look like is very different. However, the bottom line is that we all are somehow finding our happiness and getting through different struggles.
Just like everything else there is no on answer for all, but there surely is one destination for all and that is to be happy for the most of your life. There are a lot of uncertainties we unfortunately cannot run away from, there will always be problems to deal with and we will always be led by the unknown. But despite of all this there are few things we can control and make our life much less complicated.
Don’t ever get lost in the noise and that is a very important rule to remember. When we start listening to too many opinions around us, too many suggestions and too many stereotypes of how and what things should look like, we can very easily get lost in all this noise and the next thing we know we don’t even realize what we want.
The reason most people don’t understand what they want is because they are too focused on what others want for them or from them. There will always be an influential party involved, whether its family, a sibling, friends, a partner or people at work, your mentor; they all will have something to say or suggest. For the most part their intentions are always good, when someone is giving you a suggestion based on their experience, or you see a lot of information on social media, there are too many possibilities around you.
You must always remember that you don’t get lost in any of this. It is definitely helpful to take advice and hear different perspectives but the final decision should be based on what feels right to you for you.
It can be either bad or good for you, it doesn’t matter. It should always be your mistake to make, and your journey must be led by only your own decisions. There will surely be a lot of experimentation throughout the way, you will have to really explore different possibilities before you know what is ideal for you but don’t let the noise stop you from exploring.
The noise around you and the one in your head that probably is talking a lot of crap about your insecurities, unworthiness, and self-doubt. No noise from any direction is going to benefit you.
You must learn to overcome not only the noise unwanted suggestions are making around you but also stop listening to the overthinking noise in your head. It will ruin more than you can imagine. In the end it doesn’t matter what others think you should do or should have done, but what matters is that your respect your own capability to make your choices and don’t let the noise rule your life. It’s that simple.
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