We strongly believe in being the best and most original version of you. Most of my videos are all about how you must focus on building your confidence, maintaining your authenticity, and just understanding yourself better. We must focus on our individual journey and do the best we can to build a good life for ourselves. The tricky part is we can’t just live by only practicing individualism.
It is not all about us and the one thumb of rule is the world doesn’t revolve around you. It is surely important to be who we are but what is also important is to know how to balance focusing on both ourselves and the people around us.
Some of get too indulged in exactly what they want when they want and how they want it. It is good you know all that but be prepared it won’t always go your way and to live a fulfilling life we must learn to adjust and sacrifice as long as it is not crushing our soul or mentally disturbing us.
The most difficult bit is to understand when to say no to yourself and make that adjustment to make someone else happy. We want our lives to turn out the best, but we must also always remember that being there for others should be an integral part of values.
For any relationship, both in person and professional life you will need to know where to draw the line, so you are not coming across as too selfish. The one rule that can help you to be more open to making those adjustments is trying to understand the other person and why they do what they do. You must understand the other person’s intent and experience. They might be asking you something based on strong experience, or acting in a manner because they haven’t dealt with their trauma, or in a specific situation they really need you to be or do something the way they want. The best course of action is when logic is not working, try activating your emotional intelligence.
Learn to empathize, and really communicate with the person you are dealing with. If you can help the other person understand your point of view, and understand theirs in return, there are high chances you will figure out when to give in and when to stand up for your opinion.
If you walk into a situation with kind, open, and empathetic approach, you will mostly come out with the best outcome. Life is hard as it is so while we are working hard and putting in efforts in our own journey, we must not forget to put some efforts and thought into how much we give or are giving back. We must consciously make an effort to stay grounded and seek happiness for both ourselves and the people around us.
So, practice being the best version of you, but also practice giving others the best version of you. It’s that simple.
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